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Pick Something

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I had a boss once say to me in her fake English accent, from the other side of her enormous desk, hands folded across her chest, reading glasses at the edge of her nose: Oh Kyra, it’s really very simple. Just pick something and stick with […]



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We are here to care for ourselves in our pain, our fear, our disappointment, jealousy, and regret. That’s our job–caring for ourselves in those moments of darkness. Not to make it go away or to make it better, but simply because it is there. It’s […]



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Here’s what I have to say today: Ask. Do it even though sometimes it’s hard to remember or scary to muster the courage to sit with the excruciating vulnerability that asking can bring. Don’t wait for her to figure it out or for him catch your disappointed vibe. Ask for […]